Saturday, 11 July 2009

Photos of Benjamin!

I soooo wish I had time to update properly with loads of descriptive details like I'm longing to write! But I'm being strict with myself and doing a total REST thing for the 2 weeks that Neil is on paternity leave. I'm staying in my bedroom, even! I came downstairs this evening for a couple of hours, but I'm basically just staying where I get the most rest.

Benjamin is the hungriest baby I have ever produced (and I thought that would be unlikely going by the others, particularly Arthur!) and seems to have rooted continually since he basically started breathing, haha! ;) Seriously, I am only SLIGHTLY exaggerating! He has been on the breast since a few minutes after birth, and when he's not on the breast he's having a RARE sleep, or else crying and rooting, bless his sweet little heart! This means out of the two nights since I gave birth, I have not really had any sleep. The first night I got two 15 minute blocks of sleep when he stayed asleep next to me after he went to sleep breastfeeding. Last night he slept for 2 hours eventually, somewhere after 3.30am, after falling asleep breastfeeding, and so I slept for that time. I'm nursing him lying on my side but I'm still so uncomfortable from giving birth that I can't seem to sleep like that. Also it's so hot and humid in the bedroom, even though it is cooler in general outside. I'm not supposed to use a fan or the A/C unit in the bedroom with Benjamin right there at the moment, so I am too hot to sleep some of the night too. Tonight is the first night we've set up the Amby Hammock and put him in it, so I've put the fan on at last, directed at me on the bed, away from Benjamin. Hopefully the two things combined will get me a better night's sleep!

He's been asleep in there for maybe 30 minutes but he's waking as I type this, so I will have to quickly post the few photos I've got so far and then put him back to the breast. My milk is IN (less than 36 hours!), which is hardly surprising with how Benjamin has been feeding! ;)

Here is a rather dark and grainy photo taken on the evening he was born. I love it because this is how the lighting was for his birth and the next 24 hours after, and this is where he was born too - on my bed right there! :)




These next few were all taken at 1 day old, of Benjamin asleep on my bed. I really haven't had chance to take many photos yet, and none at all yet of the boys with their new brother, but those will come soon. Meanwhile, these few show you a bit better what he looks like. He DOES have Nathan's chin, like I thought from the ultrasound pictures at 20 weeks! And his face shape is similar to Arthur's when he was a newborn, not Matthew or Nathan's shape at all. He has Arthur's eye shape (different from the other two) and some of the same mannerisms that Arthur had as a tiny baby, so overall (so far) I would say he resembles Arthur the closest.







That's all for now, but back soon I hope, with more details! Thanks for all the lovely congrats! xx

13 comments:

PsychedMum said...

He is utterly beautiful! Congratulations again, Alice and family. Thank you for updating, and get as much rest as is humanly possible! Shelley xxx

Julie said...

Oh MY! HE'S DARLING!!!! Oh I wish I could hold him for just a few minutes!!! Have such fun with him at this precious stage. This stage (first 2-3 weeks) is so wonderful, I think!!! Ava was just a snuggling, nursing, darling little thing - quiet as could be until a bit after 2 weeks when she found her voice! And she continues to show us she can use it!!! Thank you for taking the time to share!!! xoxo Julie

Good Timing said...

I think that little Benjamin is very cute! He definitely has Nathan's chin! He doesn't really seem to look a lot like the other boys yet, does he? It will be interesting to see. I hope you are able to get some more sleep and rest soon. Thinking of you!!

Tequilamonkey said...

Hell baby Benjamin :D
Ooh he's a real cutie-pie Alice, but you're right, very different to his brothers!
Enjoy your babymoon! Well done for the decision to bedrest with him, I think that's a perfect plan :)
I may not have a chance to write to you again before I go away so I hope your first week is lovelyand the boys all settle well togther for you and Neil xxxxxxxxx

Mallory said...

He is so cuuuuuute!!!! :)

Meg said...

I think he looks like new Arthur...I wondered if he was Arthur in that first pic. He's very beautiful whoever he looks like!

Hope he starts sleeping a bit more soon now he's getting milk...that must be exhausting. Love to Neil and the boys too xx

Megan Cobb said...

I think his chin and mouth are like Nathan's. He's beautiful, Alice. Rest and enjoy and love on him a little bit for me, too. Oh, and squoosh his cheeks together to make his mouth pucker - I love doing that to newborns. Hee hee.

Thanks for updating and posting pictures! I can't wait to hear all the details when you have time. Love you!

M

Meg said...

Heh, just compared with Nathan's first photos and I change my vote...they look so alike!

FloridaGirl said...

Alice, he is just scrumptious!! Vann and Camden have both been hungry little buggers so I know how it goes. Isn't it the most glorious feeling to give birth in your very own bed?! I would do it over again a million times (ok, maybe not that many). I am so happy for you and your new little addition. I know you are just over the moon in love with this little chap!
Heather, Camden and Vann

Melanie said...

Oh Alice! He is absolutely beautiful!! You have been so blessed with such lovely boys! Thanks so much for taking time out of your very busy day to share your newest little lovey with us. I can definitely see a mixture of Arthur & Nathan. So sweet!!! I look forward to watching him grow up like his big brothers. Thanks so much for sharing your family with us. xoxo

Laura said...

He's beautiful, Alice!! Congratulations! Can't wait to hear your birth story...but take your time. :)

WonderGirl said...

Gorgeous, scrumptious, delightful little package! He's so sweet. Hope you're enjoying long, happy days together, and squeezing in a few naps here and there!!

Love ya!

Michawn said...

congratulations, alice...he's just beautiful!!